That's a really good comparison! And just like when my dog eats something of mine: I get angry, then I calm down, and later on I'm only left with heavy disappointment.
What bothered me most was that it seemed like a desperate attempt on Finn's part to maintain the integrity of the decisions he had previously made about Kurt's life -- which he doesn't understand he had NO RIGHT to make -- and the fact that he yelled "You can't!" right before it happened disturbed me, because it reinforced my feeling that his subconscious intent was to control Kurt. Rationally I know that Finn didn't consciously intend to do it, and he's genuinely concerned for Kurt, and that makes what he did forgivable, but in the moment I could only scream NO WHY NOOO THAT IS NOT OKAY NO WHHHYYY.
Oh man. I just hope he figures out soon that Kurt can be strong on his own (like Sue pointed out), and that he doesn't need Finn to have his back all the time, no matter how much Finn wants to make up (in his own misguided ways) for being an absent brother. And I really hope Finn gets himself caught up on psychic ethics. LOL.
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What bothered me most was that it seemed like a desperate attempt on Finn's part to maintain the integrity of the decisions he had previously made about Kurt's life -- which he doesn't understand he had NO RIGHT to make -- and the fact that he yelled "You can't!" right before it happened disturbed me, because it reinforced my feeling that his subconscious intent was to control Kurt. Rationally I know that Finn didn't consciously intend to do it, and he's genuinely concerned for Kurt, and that makes what he did forgivable, but in the moment I could only scream NO WHY NOOO THAT IS NOT OKAY NO WHHHYYY.
Oh man. I just hope he figures out soon that Kurt can be strong on his own (like Sue pointed out), and that he doesn't need Finn to have his back all the time, no matter how much Finn wants to make up (in his own misguided ways) for being an absent brother. And I really hope Finn gets himself caught up on psychic ethics. LOL.